DO NOT READ IF YOU GET EASILY OFFENDED OR DON’T LIKE READNG NEGATIVE POSTS.
I don’t care if people talk about me behind my back. If their world is so boring that they must talk about mine, then go right ahead. HOWEVER, when you talk about me to someone else who is slowly becoming a part of my life and your indirect goal might be to sabotage what’s happening, then you’ve hit a nerve.
*A bit of background information. A few years back, a previous boyfie and I broke up. He didn’t like it but there is nothing unusual about a couple breaking up. He had run his race with distrusting me and being WAY too overprotective. However, my now ex and a certain person took it upon themselves to get involved and make my new life (with a new boy) hell by causing trouble and turning people (who I thought were my mates) against me. They also spread rumours about me around the area and my football club. At the time, it annoyed me but I was moving on with my life and new boy so I blocked it out. Now back to my rant…
Tuesday, I had gone up to watch the Ranger’s men’s team train and catch up with a few of the lads. I had tried to speak to #cuteboy a few times but I was getting what seemed the cold shoulder so when training had finished, I just got up and left. I didn’t say bye because if he was mad at me for some reason, I didn’t want to make it worse. However, when I got home, there was a message on my phone asking why I hadn’t stayed back to say goodbye. So, turns out we both just had our wires mixed up and agreed to catch up on Wednesday after training and have a quick chat. I rocked up to his house on Wednesday and before I went inside, we went for a little drive to chat privately, where his family couldn’t hear. Issues were sorted and we were good, until he mentioned 2 people. Have a guess?
My ex and the person who had helped cause trouble!
Turns out, this person has told #cuteboy that I had previously dated someone else from the club.
Just what I wanted to talk about really; my ex with a possible new flame… NOT! I had already told #cuteboy the story once before because the “Have you cheated on someone?” question came up and some of the rumours that were spread were that I cheated on my ex I broke up with, with the new boy. NOT TRUE in any circumstances!
MOVING ON… I tried to find out then what else was said. I didn’t want #cuteboy thinking I was lying to him about the story and who knows what this person had told him. #cuteboy said nothing more and that it just came up in conversation. (…and my thought was “pigs fly too!”) Later in the night, I ended up finding out that this person did in fact tell #cuteboy that I had cheated on my ex.
Now for the rant…
Where do some people get off telling others stories and talking about things that they don’t even know the entire truth? Is your life so terrible that you must F*ck everyone else’s to make you feel better? There are three sides to every argument; yours, mine and the truth. Only the people involved in the argument will know the ACTUAL truth and if you aren’t directly invoiced, stay out of it. If you happen to be dragged into the argument, listen but don’t pick a side. It’s not your place.
… and …
After two years has passed, I definitely don’t think it is your place to bring it up with a new person in my life. That’s my job, certainly not yours.
Just when I think life is good and things have passed, people decide put their nose in where it is not wanted. Ugh.
Note: #cuteboy was not worried about what has happened in the past. It’s in the past. We are just taking this as it comes and seeing where this train goes. He does have a very cute smile. 🙂